What comes to mind when you hear the word “adventure”?
For me, it’s an intriguing word because it means something different for everyone. To me, adventure is a journey into the unknown — stepping outside of my comfort zone without expecting any particular outcome.
When I hear the word adventure, I feel curiosity and excitement. It’s not about thrill-seeking or doing activities just because they look cool. Instead, I think: What will be different this time? What will I experience? What will I find interesting? Who will I meet?
How about you? Does adventure stir up excitement in you, or does it trigger cautious, protective feelings?
Here’s another question for today:
How adventurous would you say you are?
(1 = not adventurous at all; 5 = I absolutely love adventure)
Of course, the answer depends on how you personally define adventure. That’s why I’m not giving any examples from my own perspective — so that you can think objectively for yourself.
Another question:
Is your favorite travel companion as adventurous as you?
Who do you travel with on your most active and unpredictable trips?
What were your five most exciting local or international trips?
What made them so thrilling?
Are you the one who usually turns trips into adventures, or is it others?
What kind of adventures have you had in the past six months?
What do these experiences reveal about you?
Do your friends share your ideas and spirit of adventure?
How do you feel when you’re with them?
That’s quite a list of questions, I know — but I wanted to put them all together. In the next post, we’ll talk more about how the search for adventure affects daily life. But as you may have noticed, these questions also reveal things about your life overall.
You might find yourself thinking:
- Adventure? What if something goes wrong?
- Wow, maybe I’m really boring…
- Others are so boring; they don’t understand me.
- My friends and I are really cool.
- Look at what others are doing, and I haven’t done anything!
In reality, travel, vacations, and travel companions reveal a lot about yourself — sometimes things you find hard to accept, sometimes things you didn’t even realize about yourself or hesitate to admit.
Asking yourself these adventure-related questions also helps you notice issues in your everyday life.
Maybe you’re constantly seeking excitement, but the monotony of your daily routine overwhelms you.
Maybe you can’t find anyone to share your quests with and feel lonely.
Maybe you’re afraid to step outside your comfort zone, and that fear makes you feel trapped in many aspects of life — causing you to miss opportunities and approach every decision with caution and hesitation.
Speaking personally:
I’ve encountered many different things on my travels. Sometimes I realized I was afraid of the unknown; other times I dove in headfirst without hesitation. Thanks to these experiences, my self-confidence has grown. I now believe I can live anywhere in the world, under any conditions. Even at my lowest point, I trust that I’ll find my way.
Another benefit of traveling has been the people I’ve met — both those I traveled with and those I met along the way. Through them, I’ve become much more aware of what kinds of people I connect with and what exactly I’m looking for in others. Sure, you could figure this out in daily life too, but unless you step outside your comfort zone, it’s difficult.
That’s because both our immediate environment and social media — and where they overlap — narrow our perspective. We drift away from our own truths and adopt a reality that’s presented to us. Yet, both we and the world are so much more than that.
Take a simple example: university entrance exams.
We live in a country where everyone is expected to become a doctor, engineer, lawyer, or architect. Titles and prestigious professions matter. We can’t seem to imagine anything else.
While we’re told “you can be anything”, as we grow up, “anything” shrinks into just a few things.
When you push back, people say: “Well, we’re not a developed country.”
But the more you travel, the more you realize that there really are endless options.
It’s not about being “developed” — it’s about mentality.
Similarly, titles may carry huge weight in our culture, but you quickly notice that elsewhere in the world, different norms apply. Your ego only matters within your own comfort zone.
While it’s important at home to be called “Mr.” or “Ms.”, in other places you realize that those titles don’t mean anything at all.
Beauty standards are another example.
In some places, people line up to have their bodies completely transformed, while elsewhere, you see people embracing and appreciating natural beauty.
The same applies to politics.
On one side of the world, you might think you’re experiencing all of humanity’s problems; on another, you encounter people and realize how misplaced your priorities and ego really are.
Or the opposite: you may believe your country is the center and leader of the world — only to discover that in some places, people have absolutely no idea who you are or where you come from.
In short, the moment you step outside your comfort zone, you begin to return to your true self — you become more you.
It’s not about the boundaries you’ve drawn for yourself under the influence of your environment, but what you face beyond those boundaries. That’s what truly defines your self.
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