How to know yourself-2: Strengths and Weakness

Today’s questions are what are your strength and how is it balanced with your life, what are your biggest accomplishments and failure?

This question is also not easy to answer of course. Many people tend to compare themselves with others- They feel like they need to be others. More energetic, more outgoing, and more successful with income, career and so. This is the main source of unhappiness.

You should know that you are the only competitor of yourself. Your reality, your background, your environment, and your influential factors are different. That’s why the most important thing is to try to know yourself, try to be objective with yourself, make a peace with yourself, and build things on your reality.

Measure of Success

Today’s world is a marketing world. Our presence is combined with a virtual world with followers, likes, and profiles. Success is said that money, wealth, and career. This is wrong. I have some friends that never followed the study-work-family routine and they are successful in their life because they are pleased. For them, success is to be able to stay away from the system. For some, success is health. For others, it is having a family, traveling, etc. Examples can be extended. Sometimes, even drinking water every day can be a success. this metric depends on you.

It is possible that you can find yourself as a failure because you cannot reach your goals. In this case, better to take it as an experience and lesson to be learned. Nothing is for nothing. If you know yourself well if you know that you can do better, and if you know reality, you can manage everything you want. Do you want money? Just think why you don’t have it now and how much is your goal. Then you will be able to find a way as well to reach that goal. Step by step.

Never overwhelm yourself. Everybody has their own time and own life. Important is to be objective and to know yourself.